Yfaith
Get Connected
New to Yfaith?
Yfaith Capsule

See what others have added
Got a question?
We can help!
Each month we put someone in the Yfaith spotlight, asking them questions from the best we've received.
Favorite Pages
Popular Tags
 
 
One Big Adventure
Get Connected Faith Your World Sacred Space
Yfaith: Home > Get Connected > Girls only (Looking for the Boys Only page??)
 
  Girls only!


So you're done something you probably shouldn't have done...

We’ve all done things in life that we’ve regretted afterwards. It might be an argument we’ve had, when we said things we’d like to take back… or not doing homework and saying the dog ate it… or going a bit too far with our boyfriend.

The thing is, we can all too easily fall back on the ‘excuse’ of Original Sin: ‘We are only like his because of Adam and Eve… It’s natural, it’s part of who we are.’ On the one hand this can seem quite easy: ‘oops, sorry, I’ve done something I shouldn’t have so I won’t do it again.’ But sometimes it just isn’t that straight forward – we’re latched onto something because although it’s bad… we like it.

You know what? Growing up is a lesson in living, and from time to time we do fall off the straight and narrow path of holiness because we are not experienced enough to know what we can handle and what’s too much. God knows this already though because He created us and He loves us so much that He only wants what is good for us. This is why Jesus sacrificed himself. He died to save us and if we sometimes fall at the hurdles life throws in front of us, Jesus will forgive us if we show that we are truly sorry.

He’s always there looking out for you no matter how low or guilty (or not) you feel. He’s your God, your Father and your helping hand who loves you more than we can ever possibly imagine.

father and childSo try with all your might and pray to God that He will help you to move away from temptation when it happens. The more you show your desire to move away from something that is bad, the more you show your commitment to Him, the more He’ll help you out, and the more you’ll grow in determination to stay on the glorious, but tough, path to Heaven.

Whoever said life was easy ;-) ?!

By Phoebe (Find out more about Phoebe)

Scroll down to the bottom to see past articles

what type of friend are you?

girls with arms around each others shoulders
take the quiz below to find out

(find out more about Jo who wrote this quiz!)

Step Ahead

faith


This month we hear from Faith, aged 16

Likes?
Music, family and friends, food, laughing.

Dislikes?
Being ill, peanut butter, cotton wool, sound of wind screen wipers.

Listening to?
Pretty much everything!

And our random fact about Immanuela:
I always really fancy going swimming.

What difference does faith make in your life?
It gives me moral expectations and guidelines so I know when I’ve gone ‘too far’ etc

What helps your faith?
Talking to others in a similar situation to myself in faith.

Top tips for Yfaith girls:
It will get easier, just keep going!

Don’t be afraid to be yourself and express faith. People won’t react as bad as you may think.

Thanks Faith!!

Aged 14+?
Want to see your interview here?

Download your application

 

bible detective

Do you think you've got what it takes to BE A DETECTIVE??

 

 



 
Instructions

Friends play a big part in our lives... take this quiz to find out what kind of friend you are. Make a note of each answer, whether it's a, b, c or d.

At the end, add up which letter you have the most of and look up the answer...

1. I think friendship is all about...

a) Lots of laughs and having fun.
b) Having someone to confide in.
c) Sticking together through the good and the bad.
d) Offering support, love and time.

2. At the moment I have...

a) Lots of friends, but no one who I would consider a best friend.
b) A couple of really close friends, and I have a best friend in that group.
c) A small group of really close friends.
d) A couple of people you consider best friends and a wider group of friends you hang out with from time to time.

3. You hear that your friend has split up with her boyfriend...

a) You tell the next 6 people you see.
b) So what! There are plenty more fish in the sea.
c) You are miserable with her, offering a listening ear and some advice.
d) You go round to her house with some chocolate and see how best to help.

4. You go shopping with a friend. You both want the same shoes. What do you do?

a) Argh! Now it is tense and there could be an argument. This just got dull! You walk away.
b) You think that you should have the shoes and you’re going to make her feel guilty so that you can have your own way.
c) What’s the problem? Why can’t we both have them?
d) You let your friend get them. You’re sure you’ll find something just as nice somewhere else.

5. Your friend is not allowed to come out with you at the weekend...

a) You sympathise, but lots of other friends are going out, so you’ll go with them.
b) It’s OK. Your other friend is allowed to come out, so all is well.
c) If your friend is not allowed, you won’t go either.
d) You change your plans, go round to your friend’s and stay in as well.

6. Your friend borrows your favourtie handbag and damages it...

a) It’s only a handbag! It is not worth worrying about.
b) You feel really upset and expect your friend to make it up to you.
c) You feel gutted, but try not to let your friend know. Perhaps you won’t lend her stuff in future.
d) You feel sad, but it’s only a handbag. A friendship is worth a lot more.

Add up your as, bs, cs, and ds and flick through below to finr out what you're like.
Mostly a)
You are lots of fun to be around and can be the life and soul of the party. You enjoy time with a big group of friends. You’re fairly laid back and try not to fall out with people - nothing is going to spoil your fun!

Advice from the Bible: “A person who has many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” (Proverbs 18:24)

Be careful not to miss out on close friendships by trying to have too many friends. Quality friendship needs work, but it can be fantastic!
Mostly b)
You enjoy having 1 or 2 close friends that you know you can trust. You appreciate being able to tell your friends the things that are important to you.

Advice from the Bible: “A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need.” (Proverbs 17:17)

Being a good friend is as important as having good friends. Make sure that you consider your friends’ needs as well as your own.
Mostly c)
You are someone who takes friendship very seriously. You are a loyal and trustworthy person who sticks by your friends through thick and thin.

Advice from the Bible: Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (Proverbs 17:9)

Being able to forgive and receive forgiveness is important in friendship. Try to forgive your friends when they hurt you. One day, you’ll need them to forgive you!
Mostly d)

You are the sort of friend that every girls needs! You show love and concern, putting others first. You are very considerate and thoughtful.

Advice from the Bible: "Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses" (Proverbs 27:6)

Giving compliments to friends can be easy, but being a good friend sometimes means telling the truth, even when you know it might upset them. Don’t worry! They’ll thank you in the long run.

Download Past Articles:

starDon't Panic!

starBoyfriends

starBoobs and Bras

starFriendship

starMoving On

starBoys

starBeauty

starTalking to God

starDealing with worry

starNew Beginnings

starFeeling left out

starSo you've done something you shouldn't have...

 
 
 
 
 
© CASE 2008 All rights reserved    |   Website Design - ThinkNoodle